Unconditional Beings Living in a Conditional World

The Underlying Dilemma

In our fast-paced world, when there is not enough time, money, energy, or mental capacity to pursue everything, what more can we expand to tackle the challenges of this world? As a graduate from Fuller Theological Seminary School of Psychology, practicing as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, then obtaining a Ph.D. in performance psychology my capacity to manage everything was limited. There were long periods of time where things seemed impossible from raising 4 kids, working full time, living like a single parent due to husband’s graveyard shifts, managing a Ph.D. program, and finalizing a book on well-being. In the process, founded a private practice group, Center for Integrated Care providing mental health and psychiatry services to the community. My area of specialty includes trauma focused treatment, couples therapy, family therapy, and Christian Counseling. My passion is to unearth potential and optimize capacities for people so that they can live healthier lives. 

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What is the secret to managing all this and having more capacity and passion to continue this journey? A self-approbated ego is the key. In this self-help book, understanding the underlying dilemma between our unconditional self living in this conditional world will divulge our subconscious thoughts and beliefs. Readers will also see how the integration of mental health and spirituality can improve the quality of life. Understanding the ego states and how ego plasticity operates to shed light to a confused identity, while finding sustainable happiness and improving self-esteem. Discovering the process towards self-approbation can further expand our limitations in this ever changing world.

The key principle of this powerful book lies in the self-approbated ego, a term Dr. Cha has created for the process of solving the complex puzzle of the self, uniting the disparate pieces to create a healthier, happier, more confident approach to life. The author shows, from a variety of angles, how people, as unconditional beings, struggle to live in a conditional world of dissatisfaction, self-neglect, and misplaced values.